This is a piece that I wrote six years ago during my experience with breast cancer. It was the first time that I worked with a really good physical therapist. Working with you has been my second. Thank you for working a similar miracle.
"If there were a gift I could give every woman who has breast cancer, it would be the gift of physical therapy.
Physical therapy has helped me create a path to normalcy. It has given me back a full range of shoulder motion and abdominal strength. That freedom to move makes me feel more like myself. Although that was the reason that I started physical therapy, the return of physical ability has turned out to be my secondary.
Twice each week, she reminds me, "You're in charge." After so many months of doctors being in charge, treatment schedules being in charge, and cancer being in charge, it is affirming to have someone remind me that I have control over my own body. I own my limitations.
And, ironically, every visit, she says, "Don't help me," as she stretches and shakes and massages my limbs and muscles. She gently asks just a little more of my body that I knew it was ready to give. I relax and revel in her helping my body to heal itself. Of all the professional hands I have felt these many months, this is the first time that someone has encouraged my body rather than intruding into it.
When I tell people that I LOVE physical therapy, they ask, "Doesn't it hurt?" Of course it hurts. Everything on the breast cancer menu comes with a side order of pain.
But this is healing pain. Physical therapy is helping me become myself a little more with each treatment. Flexible, calm, and closer to pain free, I am better able to face the future.
I wish for you appreciation for the body in which you live."
Deni Elliot
Florida